Expect form yourself.

In our life we have generally two kinds of expectations, One is expecting form others which is like quite general and normal. Another kind of expectation is something which you expect from yourself and your life. Expectations may work well for you or some time it may ruin your life as well.



If you expect something from other there more chances your expectaions may not b fulfilled and you end up suffering beause of that. On the other hand expectations that you held from yourself will always lead you toachieve something that you have always craved for.



If you expect some one to do you some favour and your expectation do not get fulfilled you either cry or you might as well make that person cry for that. But any how in that case no one will be happy. At the same time if you expect something from yourself and you really dare to achieve, you will lead to a happy ending.....



Its not always wise to think what you expect from other, is rational and logical. From your point it might be but form their point you might be the most illogical and irrational person. Always try and think what would be your reaction if you were some one else. Try and put your feet in some one else's shoes and you migh tget to know how hard it is to behave and how easy it is to react.



So, always expect relavent thing from relavent person. Your irrelavent expectations will lead no one to happiness, niether you not the person you expected something from. So why bring sorrows in your own life..... Why to create problems your self when you already have few other problems to slove.



I always pray to god that any expectation that may arise in my mind will be more for me and less for others. We must have to the relaveance of our expecatation towards us and towards others. Because at hte end of the day what i may want is happiness out of my life -as I being human- is always selfish......So, i might just expect less from you and more from me...............